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Friday, March 13, 2015

Kinky Pixels

A long time back, I wrote a post called "The Mechanics of Cyber-Sex."  I was re-reading it tonight and realized that I had not touched on a major branch of that subject:  Kinky Sex.  So, still bearing in mind that this is Not That Sort of Blog, let's take a little trip into the Dark Side today!  We'll do this with a series of definitions, accompanied in some cases with some landmarks to where you can find that particular kink in SL.  (No, you STILL don't get racy pictures!)

Age Play - Sexual activity between an adult avatar and a child or childlike avatar.  STRICTLY FORBIDDEN in Second Life.  This will get you permanently banned.  One location that skirts the dangerous edge of this is Old Lar's Warehouse, a club where teenage Lolitas go to meet older gentlemen.  Or Cherry 18, a "school" for girls.

BDSM - Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism.  A catchall term for sex that involves restraints and may include whipping or other forms of punishment.  BDSM is so common in Second Life that many "mainstream" sex beds have a BDSM menu in them.  Many people explore BDSM fantasies in online worlds like Second Life...because there they don't involve nearly as much risk (or pain!) as they would in RL.

Bestiality - Sex with animals.  (NOT spelled "beastiality!)  The K-9 Club

Body Swapping - The practice of exchanging avatars and accounts in order to "be the other person."  This skirts the edge of a Terms of Service violation.  In my opinion, it IS a TOS violation.  Not recommended!

Bukkake - Very sloppy sex, often involving multiple male partners.  The female participant is covered in semen.  A Japanese gang bang.  Bukkake Bliss , Slut Alley

Collar - a submissive will generally wear a slave collar.  This is scripted to designate someone as your owner, and the owner can leash you, and cause you to pose in various ways.  Depending on the settings, others may also be able to take control of you.  Note that in Second Life, this is all roleplay and the collar wearer always has a choice.  If you choose, you can remove an "owner."  Many people think of a collar in the same sense that "vanilla" (straight) people think of a wedding ring.

D/s - Dominance and submission.  A "master/slave" relationship.  A male dominant is a Dom.  Females are Dommes, dominas, or dominatrixes.  Submissive male partners are "subs" (male subs may also be called "sissies" but that's really a sub-genre shading over into forced feminization.) Female submissives are "subbes."  The D/s Academy

Dollification - Becoming, or being forced to become, a doll or doll-like avatar.  The Doll Works

Domination - Often roleplayed with physical manifestations such as collars, restraints, and various animations, domination is in reality a thing of the mind and the emotions.  It's all in your head, and a skilled dominant is very good at such head games!

Feminization (Often called "forced feminization.") - Roleplay in which a male avatar is forced to become a female.  Often accompanied by restraints, punishment roleplay, or humiliation.  Forced Fem University, The Pink Institute

Fetish - Many people are sexually aroused by non-sexual objects.  Almost anything can be a fetish. Some common ones are latex clothing, feet, leather, fur, high heels, nylons, tickling, smoking.  Or, um...tentacles.  That one seems to be popular with the Japanese.

FinDom - Financial Domination.  The dominatrix demands tribute in the form of money or gifts.  Mean Girls Lounge

Gor - Roleplay based on the "Gor" fantasy novels by John Norman.  Gor is not BDSM or D/s, but there is a lot of overlap.  Gor is a male dominated society and women are submissive to their male owners.  Gorean women wear filmy, revealing garments called "silks."  The Gor Hub

Gynoid - A feminine robot or cyborg, or a woman whose mind is reprogrammed via a computer and/or implanted electronic devices.

Humiliation - Some people get off on being put down.  Slave Humiliation Club

Objectification - Becoming, or being forced to become, an inanimate object, such as a statue or a piece of furniture.   Sin Labs.

OpenCollar - a collar and restraints system based on open source scripts.  OpenCollar devices are freebies, but don't turn your nose up at them.  The OC system is very good!  Temple of the Collar

RLV - Restrained Love Viewer.  A set of functions provided in many third party viewers (but not in the "stock" Second Life viewer.)  If you enable RLV, it allows your dominant to take control of a great many things in your Second Life.  They can dress or undress you, confine you in a cage or restraints, limit your ability to teleport, limit your ability to IM other people, and more...if, that is, you have given them permission to do so.  You can disable RLV in your Preferences, relog, and regain your freedom any time you choose.  Dolly Dreams (RLV Traps)

Shibari - A Japanese system of restraints, using rope instead of collars, cuffs, and chains.  House of Shibari

Snuff - Pornography in which the punishment of the sub becomes torture, resulting in death. (Ewwwww!)   Snuff Whores

TG, TS, T/S, trans - Terms relating to transgendered persons, a person of one physical gender presenting as the other gender.  This is so common in Second Life I hesitate to include it in an article about "kink!"  A person who appears to be a woman but is equipped with a penis is often referred to as a "shemale."  Another term in this area is "CD," or crossdresser.  However, CDs in Second Life are often in a class by themselves, appearing with a male body but dressed in women's clothing.  Transgender Resource Center , FABGlitter  , Stocking Tops

Vampirism - Vampire roleplay.  This is not ONLY sexual, but there is a strong element of D/s in vampire roleplay.  Bloodlines West

Vanilla - Not kinky.  Straight.  Connotation: boring.

Vore - slang term for "vorarephilia."  You may also encounter the term "Dolcett."  Sexual cannibalism.  (Another ewwww!)  Town of Stepford

Yiffing - Sex between or with Furries.


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